Showing up
Woody Allen, the patron saint of all cerebral comics, once said: -
"80% of success is just showing up"
Maybe he was telling the truth or perhaps he had more 'professional' reasons for ditching our meeting but didn't want to hurt my feelings. Either way he didn't seem to approach the appointment as part of the job.
If your impulse towards self-employment is driven by a desire to blur the lines between work and hobby then you're probably better off treating everything with the seriousness of work.